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This is a journal of Mee and Zac and our adventure starting our family.

Saturday, April 15, 2006

Springtime in Almaty

Note: Mee and I finally have internet access. We have done our best to re-cap our days since the 11th or so.

While Kokshetau is still grey, Almaty is all ablossom. It’s warm and sunny, the trees are budding, the tulips are up and it is just plain beautiful. What’s really cool about Almaty is that there are huge a$$ mountains here. Sometimes I look at the skyline and think, “My, those are interesting looking clouds,” only to realize that they’re the jutting snowy tops of these gi-norm-ous mountains. Our driver said that they are about 5,000 meters at the peak. If the weather holds, we plan to take a trip up there on Monday. We’re getting Chloe fitted for crampons now.

We walked to the Tsum store today. Yes, they have one here too. It is a little more like a mall in the states, and yet still very different. Anyone reading this who is planning a similar trip should save you souvenir shopping for the Almaty Tsum. The third floor has more souvenir shops than all of Kokshetau, maybe all of the rest of Kazakhstan? Prices seem about the same, but you have much, much more selection. Oh, and you can identify the souvenir shops by the obligatory wolf skin rugs that are prominently displayed with growly, fangy heads attached. Beautiful and creepy at the same time.

Other than that we walked around more and realized that Mee and I have to work on our stroller skillz. I for one, nearly dumped her out going down a ramp. Thank goodness for that little safety belt. Let that be a lesson to all. Seatbelts save lives (and daddy’s dignity).


Obligitory baby taking bath photo. But a really, really cute one.

Friday, April 14, 2006

Heavy hearts, light loads, and loaded pants



It is not without some sadness that I say goodbye to these two cities, cities that have been home for a month, and places with which our daughter (and we) will be forever connected.

[Shout out! Good luck to Cindy, Tony, and their son, Jayden. In just a few more weeks they’ll be finished with their journey. They are getting it all done in one trip, no second trip a few weeks later like us so finished really does mean finished. Thanks for stopping by the hotel and seeing us off, guys. It was great to see you all and we hope that the mini-reunion comes real soon!]

Today we flew the Yak 40 back to Almaty, this time with our most precious cargo to date. Yes, I mean the baby. Or are we drug mules smuggling opium into the big city? Or maybe baby is the mule? The world may never know. She was a very good flyer. Mee and I had dreaded this leg of the trip the most. Even though it’s the shortest of the three flights back home, it’s also the least comfortable. In fact, one curse turned out to be a blessing. When flying the Yak, passengers handle their own luggage onto and off the plane and there isn’t a whole lot of room in the back of the cabin for everyone’s bags. The bag United/Lufthansa lost was the largest and heaviest bag we had. It was going to be a real test getting everything onboard while Mee stowed the nibler but since we didn’t have the biggest bag, I was able to easily handle the two pieces we had with no problems, a little stinky, but no problem.

We got to the office of our agency’s in country partners in Almaty at around 8 P.M. and surprise, surprise, Chloe had finally had a BM. This was some smelly but good news since after three days, we were starting to worry. Then she had another when we got to the apartment… then another in the morning. And then another in the afternoon. It doesn’t seem to be stopping, and they’re getting bigger. I think we may need a bigger place.

As for the apartment, it’s fantastic. Nice size, in a nice neighborhood with a western style grocery store on the corner. It’s a Kazak version of Fox and Obel (or Dean and Deluca for you New Yorkskis). Having a nice apartment was quite a relief after the dump we saw in Kokshetau.

Thursday, April 13, 2006

Holed up in the hotel



“C-dawg” seems to be having no trouble adjusting to life with full-time parents. I realized that today might have been the first time in her life that she saw the same faces when she fell asleep as she did when she woke up. At the baby house, they almost certainly had different staff for morning and evening shifts. We also got to do all of her feeding and we even gave the little stinker a bath. She loved it!

I walked over to the cottage today (about a mile) and noticed a couple of interesting things about Kokshetau. Some of the buildings here seem to have been in a state of construction the entire month of March with little sign of progress. Yet somehow in the last two weeks they managed to raze an entire block that housed many of the flower shop businesses. Also, one of the shops we bought most of our souvenirs from at the Tsum Store is now gone, replaced with completely different stores and different store-fronts. I’m sure that if we return when Chloe is older, the entire cityscape will have changed completely. Bizarre!

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Lost and Found

1:00 a.m
Mee and I arrived in Almaty in pretty good shape. However, I can’t say the same for our luggage. We are missing one piece of luggage that was checked in, the one with all of our clothes in it (Chloe’s bag arrived safe and sound). After watching someone else’s bright yellow case circle around the conveyor about ten times, it was clear that ours was not going to magically appear. The Lufthansa rep spoke very good English and was very helpful. They set us up with a little overnight bag (toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, and a t-shirt to sleep in. Also, my super smart wife had suggested that I put some socks, drawers, and a t-shirt into our carry-on bag for just such an emergency. I’d be lost (and stinky) without her.

Our flight to Kokshetau left at about 9:30 a.m. that morning. Mee and I are becoming old pros when it comes to enduring the Yak 40s. We saw another couple waiting for the same flight and I pointed out to Mee that they looked like Americans (light colored pants, wrong shoes, basically dressed much more for function than fashion), and they where most likely here for the exact same reason. During the flight we found out that they are indeed in Kazakhstan to adopt a little girl but alas they are from Ottawa, Canada. Let that be a lesson to all snooty Americans (and Canadians) – we look the same! The Ottawa couple was heading all the way to Petropavlovsk on the Yak, good luck to them.

We landed safe and sound and were greeted by a familiar face. It was Marina, our interpreter from our first trip. There had been some uncertainty around who our interpreter would be for this trip. Marina was not only very good at her job, she had become a real friend to us. I have a hard time expressing how reassuring it was to see her.

And… since we didn’t really know whose number to give to Lufthansa if/when they located our missing piece of luggage, we had given them Marina’s cell number (one of the two Kaz phone numbers we had on us). Sort of grasping at straws since we didn’t really know if she would be working with us. By the time we arrived in Kokshetau, she had already received a call from the airline about our bag and it would be waiting for us in Almaty on Friday when we returned. Great news – I would only need to make these clothes last a few more days.

First stop: our apartment. It was a complete dump. I should have pulled out the camera just to show you how bad it was. Imagine a really, really bad apartment, now imagine it being worse. Thankfully, Mee protested right away and made it clear that we would not stay here and that we wanted to stay at the Kokshetau Hotel.

Turns out that not only was the hotel very nice, it ended up being cheaper. Methinks someone was trying to get one over on us with the apartment – who knows? Anyway, as an added bonus for staying at the hotel, we got to see Ali and Maribel (our cottage mates from our first trip) and Jaden and Leila, their new son and daughter. They were leaving pretty much as we were arriving, but it was great to see them just the same. Everything looked like fantastic and beautiful chaos as it should.

Second stop: head to baby house for a visit with the nibbler, or at least that was what we thought. Turns out that someone greased some wheels (or just a little common sense) and we got (that’s “got” as in “she’s all yours, all the time”) little Chloe today. Yikes! How can you prepare for something for more than twelve months, have it consume all you do for the last two months and still feel completely unprepared for the reality of it? I don’t know, but that is exactly how I feel.

Getting our travel on

I’m afraid to say it, but I think I’m getting used to traveling to the other side of the world. Mee and I were much better prepared this time. We brought all the necessary de-congestants (this should help avoid having our heads pop off due to cabin pressure.)

On a travel related note, if you haven’t seen Aeon Flux, you will die smarter than I will. I am certain that the brain cells used to remember this fine piece of cinema will be needed in the future for something really important. Maybe I will keep forgetting my daughter’s birthday. When is her birthday anyway? Hey, have you seen that Charlize Theron movie–the one where she acts like she can’t act? How old is Chloe? Oh well.

Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Frankfurt(er) Airport

We are trying to post from a kiosk in the airport. Mee has already made a real pithy and clever comment about how difficult it is to use this keyboard, only to lose it when our time ran out. So I´ll keep this quick.

We are at the airport.

New post soon.

Love you all.

Monday, April 10, 2006

Here we go (again)

Mee and I are madly scrambling to get packed up and ready to go. Everything we gained by not having to pack for a one month stay, we lost by packing for a week with a baby. I've heard people say that traveling with a child is always a pain because of the insane ammount of stuff. I wonder if it was like this for our parents? I don't remember having all these things with us. We have packed so many "convenience" items they're no longer convenient. How many diapers? How many wipes? How many toys? How many pacifiers? And... we don't really know what Chloe likes. I guess that is the added pleasure of packing for someone you don't really know yet.

So, we got that going for us. Which is nice.

New posts and new picture coming as soon as we get to an apartment and internet access. Should be about Wednesday night.